leisa ralph was born in barking on July 07, 1973. She was much loved and is really missed by all of her friends and family.Im her younger sister and I miss her more than any one could possible no. She was very ill and me and my brother spent along time with her whilst she was in hospital I feel i got to say goodbye to her by spending that time with her. But i really wanted to share some of the things you and i loved about her through this site. emma xx
please leave any memories you have of her or a picture or thought or anything because i will keep her memory alive forever. she wil always be my sister and i never say WAS!!
love from emmaxx
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MY BABY MY SISTER MY BEST MATE SHE WAS TAKEN AWAY BY ANGELS BUT NOBODY ASKED ME. She taught me so much not only how to ride a bike but also how to walk, talk, and run. she has two great kids and i will watch out for them forever, and always. There names are Chelsie Jessie Baker, shes 16, and Aaron Stephen Baker and hes 15 tommorow 1/9/07. They are both her biggest achievement and I love them both so much.
leisa had a short life just 33 years, but she acheived so much along the way, And i miss her so much she was everything to me and I dont think i'll ever get over her death.
She was very depressed due to many things and sadley she could take no more on this earth and she took her life on 1st june 07, she passed away 14/06/07. She would of been 34 on 07/07/07.
MY BABY MY SISTER MY BEST MATE
My sister loved her pets, Iguana Lex and the two ginger cats Jordan and Bailey. She had many strange pets along the way, a chinchilla called Cilla, and snake called Monty, yes it was a Python. She loved animals and she really missed Molly her little cat when she died earlier this year. The few months before leisa died she had acheived so much. She had passed her exams for care and health. She was going to look after the elderly or disabled. As you may read further on she had some damage to her teeth due to an accident when she was young. she had been wearing a brace for the past three years and had just had them off revealing the best teeth in our borough. She went through lots of pain to get those teeth and endless tubes of bonjella!! in the end her teeth were perfect and she was so pretty I was so proud of her and told her so every day. She was one of these people who got better looking as they got older. she blossomed and if heaven is where shes at then its a very lucky place to have her there.
I WAS BORN ON JAN 31ST 1978, my big sister and brother idolised me I gave them loads of reasons two give them the hump but they always forgave me and id make fish finger sarnies for them and there mates. These mates included coz aka wayne, who egged them on by telling me my sarnies were great so id make them all one. Then there was clair Francis, who I once found a full packet of fags for and thought i was the greatest.. Leisa And Jimi were only given permision to go night fishing if they took me so i kind of became a nessecity to my big bro n sisters freedom. If they ever went out without me id create so much they had to come back for me. My brother and sister where named Ralphie by there freinds and i always remember stateing to them MY NAME IS NOT RALPHIE ITS EMMA a statement I defended until she died now im proud to be a RALPHIE it means i was part of it all.
the younger years so so care free. a life of playing runouts silly nicknames (you no who you are!) and makeing sure youd tryed Thunderbirds before you were 12.
I remember when I was about 4 and Jimi and leisa drew in my mums bible. she sat us down on a toy box n said 2 whoever says it was them and tells the truth will get a chocolate bar. she new it was jimi n leisa cause i couldnt write my own name let alone theres but when she was out o the room jimi n leisa told me to say it was me so id get some chocolate and cause i was young. i told my mum what they told me to to say and they got the chocolate bar .whilst i sat there without chocolate but proud id saved my big bro n sis a hard time. even though the bible clearly had "leisa n jimi were ere" on it and i couldnt even write my initials!!but i was just proud they were let off.
in my sisters diarys after her passing she has written
"i dont remember much about Emma only that she had the was so pretty " She then says "i dont remember her getting hit much"
Bless her, she forgave me for everything and I did need her alot.
Whatever i needed she helped me all the way like sisters do. She was 16/17 and had just had Chelsie so she had her first home and she opened her doors to me over and over again. Her love never falterd and she was always there for me. I would give everything to have her back except her suffering more, each day i go bye in pain, i no shes had none.
I remember Leisa as a child being a dare devil, she would try just about anything scary. When she was a about 9 the boys around our area were makeing a jump ramp for their bikes Leisa voluntered to be part of the ramp and lay on the floor so the boys could jump over her!! Only problem was as she was waiting she got fed up and just as a bike came alone she sat up and was hit hard between the eyes by a flying peddel. She had a scar from that.
Also when she was around the same age she pushed the ice cream van away as it drove off and got her hand stuck, the ice cream man dragged her round the corner and she scraped her legs in the road. Not surprisingly she had a few scars from that to and was mocked forever about it by everyone who new.
had some flash backs about my sis today, good ones about how she loved to take the micky out of me. She always reminded everyone what a bad cook i am. She would say "it takes you a loaf to make two decent slices of toast Emma! Another one was god em the kids dinners not black enough put it back in the oven before the kids think its still raw!! she only ever once said "no actually that was quite nice" id cooked her a roast one sunday. she quickly added "the peas didnt bounce once or break the window when i threw one darling, well done!!.... it was funny and when i think of it i see her laughing. She always had me in stiches laughing and thats one of the things i miss the most. Basically our ability to act stupid with each other and not care.
my sister had a 36 hour labour with her 1st chelsie. It was new years eve 91 at her home. she was in slow labour so while she had pains we walked to the nearest petrol garage 2gether to get some chocolate bourbon biscuits. every time she had a pain i wrote it down it drove her mad n i was scared so i just kept on writting and taking notes and eating bourbon buscuits. It drove her mad at midnight when the neighbours were banging sauce pans and cheering in the new year. She was at the window shouting SHUT UP DONT U NO IM IN LABOUR!!!! it was funny bless her but she didnt care. The next morning (not that id slept i was still hard at work taking notes and she came down the stairs and said EM my waters have broken. I phoned saundra and her and steve took her to hospital where she gave birth to chelsie jessi I was elated and i still remember it like it was last night. the next two years were full of chelsie and no one could spoil that no matter what they did.
Because she was a new year baby she was in the local paper and reiceved a gift of mother care vouchers leisa thought it was the best, it was one of many happy times for us as sisters.
The next birth two years later was even better on 1st september 93, We couldnt believe our luck. Leisa gave birth to Aaron her son he was 15 yesterday and he missed his mum so much my heart really went out to him. She went into hospital and left me in charge of her flat, chelsie was with her nan Saundra and i thought it would be a good idea to clean and decorate her flat for her when she came home. I bought balloons and banners and really got into the swing of it. Well it didnt all go to plan and i ended up breaking alot of things trying to help, she spent many years laughing at me i was only 15. The first thing that happened was that I broke a cup then it just went down hill. I broke the kitchen cupboard door then when i was hoovering i moved the sofa (to do a good job) and broke the bottle garden she had. There was glass everywhere so i moved the sofa the other way to hoover the mess and put the sofa through the fish tank!! well you can imagine how bad i felt, i thought she would go mad at me but she never. She forgave anyone anything and that was my sisters best and worst quality. When she got home with Aaron she didnt notice at first all the damage id done because i covered it all with balloons and banners but even when she did i dont remember her being angry for long. She was just like that and she saw the good I was doing before the bad id done. Thats just one of the things that stands out about her so much. She really didnt have the ability to hold a grudge against me ever, and she new i ment well. When Aaron came home it was such a happy day and i was soooo proud of my big sister. I was living with her at the time so i got to spend loads of time with her and her babies. I was just finishing school and those were proberbly the best years of my life back then. She made everyone happy and proud especially me.
Leisa took so much pride in being a mum. It was the best thing she ever did and in the 16 years she mothered i was her show so much love to chelsie and aaron. There was nothing I ever saw my sister do that she enjoyed more in her whole life.
We enjoyed many many things together: here are a few of my favs:
* being a mum and helping her kids acheive thingsin there lives
* eating bourbone buscuits when she ws pregnant with chelsie.
* Crunching ice cubes when she was pregnant with Aaron.
* Flicking peas! (she never grew out of it).
* cleaning! she didnt ever stop she loved it and was always changing the furniture around
* being girly! no one looked as good as my sis in pink.
* fags! god help us if she didnt have a fag. And almighty god help us if she was giving up smoking.
* laughing very hard with no sound till you got tears in your eyes and your stomach hurt so much you have to stop looking at each other and take some deap breaths!
* Day dreaming! she had the best daydreams the ones all girls have.
* her mates, her true freinds were named on one hand by herself one day,you all no who you are and she loved you all very much.
Our Last Goodbye,
twinkle twinkle little star,
how i wonder where you are,
up above the world so high,
like an angel in the sky,
twinkle twinkle little star,
i love you no matter,where you are!!!
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AUNTIE LEISA!!
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The things i remember about you;
and the things you used to tell me,
All good things come in small packages.
You used to call me Little Legs.
This is my page dedecated to my auntie. she always told funny stories and she would design clothes with me . she also knitted a scarf for me and my sister finlae. she will always be in my heart.
In just 2 days time we would of been without you for six months. Six months seems such a long time but for your freinds and family darling it seems like just yesterday. You are not by my side to spot a christmas bargain and i do not have a sister card to buy for you. You came with me to the school nativity plays and this year i only need one ticket. I cannot write cards i cannot be cheerful. The list is never ending and the gap you left is huge. The pain in my chest is never ending, we miss you babe, I love you emx
she loved him to bits and he loved her he is always throwing things in the air and saying he is chucking them up for her to catch. he even threw his birthday cake at the ceiling on his birthday!!
just a few picture at the moment anyone who has any more please send and i will add them emmax
I love Leisa sooooo much even more than sweets! Her fave colour was lots of colours such as Pink,Purple,Blue,Green but mostly pink also she always thought i looked good in pink too but i dident agree because pink just wasent right for me because i looked like a baby well everyone thought i was about 6 yrs old because im very very small!and i thought sometimes what was she thinking! Leisa was the best and still is the best.Leisa changed her name when she was little it used to be lisa but she wanted to be diffrent so she named herself LEISA not lisa oh gosh and she used to wear this champane pigamas witch were qwite nice but just did not suit her that much! I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD LEISA! and why did you have to go?from finlaexxx
oh leisa why did you have to do such a thing i miss you soooooo much but anyway lets talk about the times we had! we always used to go round your house and chat and chat and chat all night long about MAKEUP, oh we loved the stuff slapping it all on at the same time! oh it was funny.well i hope you like this page everyone! LOVE YOU LEISA ! from Finlaexxxx
i miss leisa soooo much since its been 10 months today.She was the best in the whole world and always used to give me so much attention! HAVE YOU EVER HAD A MEMORY YOU DID NOT WANT TO LOSE DISPITE THE PAIN THAT IT BRINGS? I have. written by finlae [little legs] xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI LOVE YOU LEISA XXxxXXxxXXxxXX
when i put tommy to bed last night he was fine. after around ten mins he called me and was crying. i asked wats up n he told me i miss auntie leisa. it hurt so bad but i said why babe whats up. he said i want her back mummy to come round, i said well son she cant cause shes in heaven but if you ever need to see her you look into your brain and she will always be there like a bright happy picture. he stopped crying and said mummy your right i CAN see her now in my brain. bless him he slept with her picture in his hand all night and bless her she loved my boy so much...
he just had his sisters birthdays and like last year he threw birthday cake at the ceiling in the living room it went every where but how can i tell him off when hes just throwing it to his auntie he uses her as an excuse these days hel be naughty and say but leisa said i could!!!! and whens he told off he says but i miss auntie leisa so i dont tell him off
trust sis its not working so much these days it dont work for me no more!!! how am i supposed to deal with him without you i was always your back up with chelsie n aaron and i took them away if they were pissing you off or out for the day if u needed me too i loved helping you but i need you too and id never trust anyone with else my babies
she was always there and iv noticed with photos she is there either holdin the cake or standing in view of the camera even just a foot or a finger she was always there with klee she would always hold back her hair whilst she blew out her candles and in a lot of pics i have all i can see is a foot or even a finger these picures are so special to me
i remember in 1998 you were living in the new flat after chelsie set fire to chelmer cresent.. i borrowed one of those vibrating slimming thingys you strap on yourself. it wasnt funny but i was 16 you were lying on your bed all wired up to the slimming box and it was on a low level. i thought id play a trick and turn it up so i crept in the room and turned the volume knob up. you screamed then you jumped around and ran after me !!! it was so funny you gave chase and ran around after me for ages i was laughing my tits off. when you finaly got hold of me you gave me a right dig lol it was so funny il never forget that day mx
went nandoes without you auntie leisa i missed you but i wore your necklace all day kayxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Well here I am again – trying to get a message on to your website – this is the third attempt and hopefully this will be successful.
Not sure what to say now – when I wrote last year and earlier this year it was very easy – the words flowed but now they don’t. Not sure why that is but last year the question was easy too – WHY ? – I wished I had known you were in such pain and so low on yourself. The conversation we had only a couple of weeks before was so much fun – reminiscing, laughing about you lots as kids. You told me you were alright – a bit of an untruth there my darling. If only, if only, if only, it’s a question I keep asking myself but I didn’t know, and if I had would I have made any difference – I doubt it. The people you had around you, and still have around you, are very bonded to you – they defend you, they love you, they miss you. If only you had taken that on board and accepted their love and not worried about the love you didn’t have – you might have been in a happier place, but we can’t change anything can we on that score.
I talk to you nearly every day – you know that anyway. I find the white feathers, in the most funny places and at the most appropriate times !!! – I was talking to Ray about you a few weeks ago, and went to pick a leaf from a plant – and there was a feather - WOW ! I cried, again, and wondered if it was you or Bob that arranged it to be there for me. And yesterday when the vase fell over in the garden and I had to pick up the glass, bent down to get the pieces and there was another feather for me – I tried to put it in my pocket but it was stuck to my finger! And I had only been talking to you a few minutes before! Some people would say this is nonsense but I don’t care.
Your birthday today – 7 July – will get you some flowers and put them in a vase and think of you. I met Ray on your birthday in 1977 – we have just celebrated our 25th anniversary, who would have thought it all those years ago. You used to laugh at him so much – I was the strict one getting you to bed etc, and he was the one chasing you all about like a monster and getting you all screaming along that long passage in your flat on Ibscott Close.
You were my very first neice, I was only 10 when you were born, so you never called me Aunty Ann – well only to take the micky. But I was very much your Aunty, loved getting you all things for your birthdays and christmas’s, loved the get together round Nan’s – normally on Boxing Day – god it was noisy round there – about 24 of us when we were all there!! And that went up every year as you all had kids of your own. When you were young, every Saturday you used to be round Nan’s, then walk up the Heathway, have a sandwich for tea and then you would all go home. It was very quiet then – I used to pop into Nan’s on Saturdays after I got married just to see you all. Now Nan and Grandad are mostly on their own most Saturdays – and although they used to moan about the mess and the noise years ago bet they still would like it now!
Got to go now my darling – sleep well – take the rest you need – and send our love to everyone that we know that’s with you partying for your birthday.
Love Always
AUNTY Ann. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
now im angry today aarons angry with me chelsies not no where n also ive got suzy (steves girlfreind) bugging me
i miss you sis n i cant handle this crap
im angry with you sorry but i am and i no you will forgive me
i cant meet the bitch who is called suzy cause id want to kill her and i hope to god steve reads this so he can
we got aarons 16th birthday coming and darling chelsie has been robbed the kids have bee making choices they dont want to make between family and they need us all
i hope you read this steve cause its your son n daugter
suzy is going behind your back shes shit stirring and asking ME for help getting aarons stuff out like his tv
its caused probs and im not happy if you want to help you should tell her to stop and please get your bird to back the fuck off cause i wont be to blame for any of it i want aaron to be ok with is dad and i am always going to be here as his aunt as well as him having laura he should do fine with us 3 i dont hate you i love aaron but suzy you aint making it no better being snidy so sort it out.
U TOOK HER AWAY AND YOU NO WHAT YOU HAVE DONE SO THE LEAST YOU CAN DO IS STOP MY PAIN NOW IVE NEVER HURT YOU AND YOU NO WHO YOU ARE SO BACK OFF AND TELL YOUR GF SHE AINT NEEDED OK THANKS
went shopping with auntie ann and lee today hunny she was brill i wish you were with us but i think maybe you were,i dont no. auntie ann is the same and ive missed her alot. but she hasnt changed she was brilliant then and still is now (shopping for gold shoes) i am proud of her as i hope one day chelsie and aaron are proud of me. i wish you were there nothing can ever replace you and i miss you your little sis emma forever xxxxxx
she was cristend lisa but changed her name to leisa when she was 9 just because she wanted to spell it her own way.
leisa ralph was born on July 07, 1973 in barking. she was a premature baby and weighed half a bag of sugar when she was born. she was in an incubator and did not take breast milk so her mum used a pump and her dad took it down to the baby room "nursery" so she could drink. day by day she grew until she was strong enough to leave hospital and go home. at that time she fitted between my dads hand and elbow and he would rock her there until and while she slept. i dont remember any thing about her younger years because i wasnt born so if anyone redaing this site that new her when she was a baby please leave anything you remember it would mean so much to me.
i miss leisa soooo much since its been 10 months today.She was the best in the whole world and always used to give me so much attention! HAVE YOU EVER HAD A MEMORY YOU DID NOT WANT TO LOSE DISPITE THE PAIN THAT IT BRINGS? I have. written by finlae [little legs] xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI LOVE YOU LEISA XXxxXXxxXXxxXX
WE ARE WISHING THAT YOU ARE WITH US SOO MUCH YOU WERE THE ONE THAT HELD THE CAKE
NOW I HAVE TO HOLD THE CAKE AND THE CAMERA
U HAVE LEFT ME AND I CANT COPE WITHOUT U
IL TRY BUT I NEED YOU SIS
Well here I am again – trying to get a message on to your website – this is the third attempt and hopefully this will be successful.
Not sure what to say now – when I wrote last year and earlier this year it was very easy – the words flowed but now they don’t. Not sure why that is but last year the question was easy too – WHY ? – I wished I had known you were in such pain and so low on yourself. The conversation we had only a couple of weeks before was so much fun – reminiscing, laughing about you lots as kids. You told me you were alright – a bit of an untruth there my darling. If only, if only, if only, it’s a question I keep asking myself but I didn’t know, and if I had would I have made any difference – I doubt it. The people you had around you, and still have around you, are very bonded to you – they defend you, they love you, they miss you. If only you had taken that on board and accepted their love and not worried about the love you didn’t have – you might have been in a happier place, but we can’t change anything can we on that score.
I talk to you nearly every day – you know that anyway. I find the white feathers, in the most funny places and at the most appropriate times !!! – I was talking to Ray about you a few weeks ago, and went to pick a leaf from a plant – and there was a feather - WOW ! I cried, again, and wondered if it was you or Bob that arranged it to be there for me. And yesterday when the vase fell over in the garden and I had to pick up the glass, bent down to get the pieces and there was another feather for me – I tried to put it in my pocket but it was stuck to my finger! And I had only been talking to you a few minutes before! Some people would say this is nonsense but I don’t care.
Your birthday today – 7 July – will get you some flowers and put them in a vase and think of you. I met Ray on your birthday in 1977 – we have just celebrated our 25th anniversary, who would have thought it all those years ago. You used to laugh at him so much – I was the strict one getting you to bed etc, and he was the one chasing you all about like a monster and getting you all screaming along that long passage in your flat on Ibscott Close.
You were my very first neice, I was only 10 when you were born, so you never called me Aunty Ann – well only to take the micky. But I was very much your Aunty, loved getting you all things for your birthdays and christmas’s, loved the get together round Nan’s – normally on Boxing Day – god it was noisy round there – about 24 of us when we were all there!! And that went up every year as you all had kids of your own. When you were young, every Saturday you used to be round Nan’s, then walk up the Heathway, have a sandwich for tea and then you would all go home. It was very quiet then – I used to pop into Nan’s on Saturdays after I got married just to see you all. Now Nan and Grandad are mostly on their own most Saturdays – and although they used to moan about the mess and the noise years ago bet they still would like it now!
Got to go now my darling – sleep well – take the rest you need – and send our love to everyone that we know that’s with you partying for your birthday.
Love Always
AUNTY Ann. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
now im angry today aarons angry with me chelsies not no where n also ive got suzy (steves girlfreind) bugging me
i miss you sis n i cant handle this crap
im angry with you sorry but i am and i no you will forgive me
i cant meet the bitch who is called suzy cause id want to kill her and i hope to god steve reads this so he can
its the six weeks hols and im i lost for what to do
ive spent it in doors wishing we were with you
i wana go beach n pick u up in my car
but as we all no your way too far
away in our lives away in my heart
i wish you were here you silly tart!!
we have so much to do and so much to say!
but i cant have you now so il save it for one day
one day when i hold you one day that i can say
my god im so glad your with me finaly today!
IL WAIT FOR THAT DAY FOREVER AND EVER CAUSE YOUR MY MATE MY DARLING MY SISTER AND MY TREASURE
I LOVE YA BABE N ID DO ANYT HING TO HAVE YOU BACK
THANKS ALL OF YOU THAT HAVE LEFT MESSAGES WE ALL LOVED HER AND ANYONE IS FREE TO LEAVE PICS, MUSIC ANYTHING LOVE MXXX
ELAIN WHATS THE SONG YOU SUNG TOGETHER IL ADD IT FOR YOU !
she loved my spanish my kids are spanish i was into it alot and am very fluent and she loved that but when she died the day my sister died i never spoke another spanish word not one not even to my kids, but in the last two weeks ive been asking a donde mi hermana y tu encantan mi habla espanol
so im going to do that again im going to finish my spanish for her porque leisa es mi hermana todos es verdad mxxxxxx
cals baby was born today he took his time i hope your looking after jessie leigh cals counting on it darling
also i cant get the marks out of the kids pe shirts ready for next term so how am i gonna deal with that babe il get some vanish!!! but i need ya right now we always planned the holidays together and had fun with the kids i will make sure i do stuff and im planning aarons visit soon
i want you back no one will really no how much emma
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we want a lover,a man who can make us feel special The best friend that we can laugh with, A sensitive man who can feel what we feel To cry when we are sad and laugh when we are happy, we do not live in another universe we do not come from another planet and i dont think our demands are too high. There is such a thing as the PERFECT man and we spend our lives trying to find him. Then when we think we have him he turns out to be NOT so perfect as we first thought, and then spend the rest of our relationship trying to change him. All it takes is a couple of easy steps to make us women happy.Its not rocket science,Its not hard.
CONCIDERATION thats the easiest, men put the toilet seat down when you have finished,its not heavy after all and you picked it up to start the job. Put your washing in the washing basket,instead of screwed up on the floor.The basket is always right next to the heap of clothes you leave for us, so go that couple more inches and reach it. pick it up When you drop something close it Open something..... it gives us less to moan about,and makes your lives easier.
we dont all want to wait to be told you love us, the smallest things make us happy, SUPRISE us with love. dont just lay on the sofa and scratch your nuts and then say "oh by the way babe i love u, now can i have a beer from the fridge". Hardly romantic. We need to feel loved, not all the time but sometimes would be nice.come home from work with a bunch of flowers once in a while.Treat us like we are special
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WE told you last month or last week and last year about all the things that are winding us up, but you was proberly playing on the ps2 or watching the football and wasnt listening to us at all,while we were splilling our hearts out. try UNDERSTANDING, we do..... we understand you are hard working all day at your place of work, and its tiring, but we work hard too, a mans mind is WORK.PLAY.REST..... there is no in between, But we work hard too. A Man thinks his job is enough,he works from 8am untill 5.30 maybe later. and then when he gets indoors he wants to put his feet up and rest. Us woman want to rest too. But our day isnt as easy as you think. We dont have the 9 to 5 that we wished, we cant switch on and off,theres no clocking in and out for us. our job is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week,365 days a year. and for most of us our day has only just begining when you men are ready to drop. Watch this space TOO BE CONTINUED Mans Rules Rules of Being a Man>> >>> > 1: Under no circumstances may two men share an umbrella.>> >>> > 2: It is OK for a man to cry ONLY under the following circumstances:>> > (a) When a heroic dog dies to save its master.>> > (b) The moment Angelina Jolie starts unbuttoning her Blouse.>> > (c) After wrecking your boss's car.>> > (d) When she is using her teeth.>> >>> > 3: Any Man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally>> > killed and eaten by his buddies.>> >>> > 4: Unless he murdered someone in your family, you must bail a friend>> > out of jail within 12 hours.>> >>> > 5: If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off>> > limits forever unless you actually marry her.>> >>> > 6: Moaning about the brand of free beer in a buddy's fridge is>>forbidden.>> > However complain at will if the temperature is unsuitable.>> >>> > 7: No man shall ever be required to buy a birthday present for another>>>> > man. In fact, even remembering your buddy's birthday is strictly>>optional.>> > At that point, you must celebrate at a strip bar of the birthday boy's>>>> > choice.>> >>> > 8: On a road trip, the strongest bladder determines pit stops, not the>>>> > weakest.>> >>> > 9: It is permissible to drink a fruity alcohol drink only when you're>> > sunning on a tropical beach ... and it's delivered by a topless model>> > and only when it's free.>> >>> > 10: Only in situations of moral and/or physical peril are you allowed>> > to kick another guy in the nuts.>> >>> > 11: Unless you're in prison, never fight naked.>> >>> > 12: Friends don't let friends wear Speedos. Ever. Issue closed.>> >>> > 13: If a man's fly is down, that's his problem, you didn't see>>anything.>> >>> > 14: Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be treated as>> > spies until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and the ability to>> > drink as much as the other sports watchers.>> >>> > 15: Never hesitate to reach for the last beer or the last slice of>> > pizza, but not both, that's just greedy.>> >>> > 16: If you compliment a guy on his six-pack, you'd better be talking>> > about his choice of beer.>> >>> > 17: Phrases that may NOT be uttered to another man while lifting>>weights:>> >>> > a) Yeah, Baby, Push it!>> > b) C'mon, give me one more! Harder!>> > c) Another set and we can hit the showers!>> >>> > 18: The girl who replies to the question "What do you want for>>Christmas?">> > with "If you loved me, you'd know what I want!" gets an Xbox. End of>> > story.>> >>> > 19: There is no reason for guys to watch Ice Skating or Men's>>Gymnastics.>> > Ever.>> >>> > 20: We've all heard about people having guts or balls, but do you>> > really know the difference between them? In an effort to keep you>> > informed, the definition of each is listed below:>> >>> > ?GUTS" is arriving home late after a night out with the guys, being>> > assaulted by your wife with a broom, and having the guts to say, "are>> > you still cleaning or are you flying somewhere?">> >>> > "BALLS" is coming home late after a night out with the guys, smelling>> > of perfume and beer, lipstick on your collar, slapping your wife on>> > the arse and having the balls to say, "Roll over, fatty, you're next!">> >>> > I hope this clears up any confusion,>> >>> > The International Council of Manhood View High Resolution
ive been looking on leisas web site she created for 2 years before she got her wings. it means so much to me to have the site and i found a verse she had written and i wanted to share it as it explains what she was like
Mans Rules Rules of Being a Man>> >>> > 1: Under no circumstances may two men share an umbrella.>> >>> > 2: It is OK for a man to cry ONLY under the following circumstances:>> > (a) When a heroic dog dies to save its master.>> > (b) The moment Angelina Jolie starts unbuttoning her Blouse.>> > (c) After wrecking your boss's car.>> > (d) When she is using her teeth.>> >>> > 3: Any Man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally>> > killed and eaten by his buddies.>> >>> > 4: Unless he murdered someone in your family, you must bail a friend>> > out of jail within 12 hours.>> >>> > 5: If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off>> > limits forever unless you actually marry her.>> >>> > 6: Moaning about the brand of free beer in a buddy's fridge is>>forbidden.>> > However complain at will if the temperature is unsuitable.>> >>> > 7: No man shall ever be required to buy a birthday present for another>>>> > man. In fact, even remembering your buddy's birthday is strictly>>optional.>> > At that point, you must celebrate at a strip bar of the birthday boy's>>>> > choice.>> >>> > 8: On a road trip, the strongest bladder determines pit stops, not the>>>> > weakest.>> >>> > 9: It is permissible to drink a fruity alcohol drink only when you're>> > sunning on a tropical beach ... and it's delivered by a topless model>> > and only when it's free.>> >>> > 10: Only in situations of moral and/or physical peril are you allowed>> > to kick another guy in the nuts.>> >>> > 11: Unless you're in prison, never fight naked.>> >>> > 12: Friends don't let friends wear Speedos. Ever. Issue closed.>> >>> > 13: If a man's fly is down, that's his problem, you didn't see>>anything.>> >>> > 14: Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be treated as>> > spies until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and the ability to>> > drink as much as the other sports watchers.>> >>> > 15: Never hesitate to reach for the last beer or the last slice of>> > pizza, but not both, that's just greedy.>> >>> > 16: If you compliment a guy on his six-pack, you'd better be talking>> > about his choice of beer.>> >>> > 17: Phrases that may NOT be uttered to another man while lifting>>weights:>> >>> > a) Yeah, Baby, Push it!>> > b) C'mon, give me one more! Harder!>> > c) Another set and we can hit the showers!>> >>> > 18: The girl who replies to the question "What do you want for>>Christmas?">> > with "If you loved me, you'd know what I want!" gets an Xbox. End of>> > story.>> >>> > 19: There is no reason for guys to watch Ice Skating or Men's>>Gymnastics.>> > Ever.>> >>> > 20: We've all heard about people having guts or balls, but do you>> > really know the difference between them? In an effort to keep you>> > informed, the definition of each is listed below:>> >>> > ?GUTS" is arriving home late after a night out with the guys, being>> > assaulted by your wife with a broom, and having the guts to say, "are>> > you still cleaning or are you flying somewhere?">> >>> > "BALLS" is coming home late after a night out with the guys, smelling>> > of perfume and beer, lipstick on your collar, slapping your wife on>> > the arse and having the balls to say, "Roll over, fatty, you're next!">> >>> > I hope this clears up any confusion,>> >>> > The International Council of Manhood View High Resolution
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your house is nearly gone somebody else is starting a new life there and i really feel the pain today its like the end although it ended months ago when you went away. i stopped outside your house and i just want to run in and chuck the new people out screaming and shouting lucky i didnt. i no youd say its just bricks an mortar but for me its another heart string ripped out love you always emma
tomorow will be the 10th month mark and im feeling sad i miss you so very much. Aaron is doing so well and yesterday when we spoke i could feel you sence of humour coming from him hes so very funny alot like you. hes grades are better than ever and hes doing much better hes a credit and youd be so proud of him its heartbreaking love always emma
i remember having a conversation with you about the time you tried to leave us before we were sitting in my kitchen and i said leisa you no what you did b4 and you said mmmm yeah i said you do no that you dont need to do that again dont you cause youve got me and you said yeah i no i wont go that again it makes me so angry im sure i couldve done somthing more i feel so guilty and hurt its been 9 months 9 days and 20 hours and 42 mins and i still want you back emmax
each day i wake and i dont remember your gone it may take a few minutes or even an hour but when i remember it makes my heart jump. then for the rest of the day my heart breaks some days im so angry i could burst others i feel so guilty i didnt do more for you. most days i just miss you id give anything to see you on the web cam pulling faces or hear you nagging on the phone about the house work or the kids. i hope you no how much i love you im sorry i could not save you. love emma
its 8 long miserable months now and i cant seem to snap out of this pain it was nanny jessies birthday yesterday and i cried all day i remember last year we went together to see her and took soime helium balloons and new slippers. nan still has the deflated balloons in her front room and her picture of you sits on the table next to her. today is valentines day and i feel so damn angry that everyones going around celebrating i just want you back and i dont care if im being stubborn im not getting dressed all day!!!! i love you and i miss you, you deserve all the flowers in the world today and every day emmaxx
tommorow will be my 30th birthday and we had plans we cannot keep ill miss you so much this is not how i saw things would be and i wish that i could change the past and get my big sister back. i dont wanna be 30 or 31 or have any more birthdays without you its not fair, i love you always mx
My heart screams daily and the tears just flow,
I miss you leis, why did you go?.
I want to kiss you on your cheek,
And stroke your hair while you're asleep.
And though I no that you had to go away,
I wish you were here forever and a day.
I promise to smile each day for you,
because I no you would want me to.
But in my heart ill forever want to cry,
because you left me leis, why did you have to die?.
emma 01 12 07
I miss you more than anything today darling. I cant go xmas shopping without you we always went together. You were so good at xmas shopping you had all yours done by july and ran around with me in december because id left it all till the last minute. this year i will use all the tree decorations you bought in january they are blue so ill have a blue tree especially for you. I love you babe and i miss you more than i can bare. Mx
I started to build my tribute to leisa ralph today. she was taken ill on 01-05-07, she died on 14-07-07. she tried so hard to come back to us for two very hard weeks, but it was not meant to be and we lost her on the 14th day. on 25th,may.07 her and my brother became the same age and on this coming saturday she would be 34. 07 07 07 a very unique and sad day. and the very last day my sister will be the same age as my brother, 4 ever!.
I will add and change the site as i go along. and if theres any one with a pic memory or even just a message please feel free to leave a comment emmax
The 1st day in most months was a good day 4 leisa. She had chelsie on 01-01-91, and went on to have Aaron on 01-09-93, and another surprise, when her 1st born niece was born on 01-07-96. She was there and she called her "Her Peachy Leigh", my eledst daughter Kayleigh she is now 11. It seems unfair to have been taken ill on the 1st of june as the first days of most months were such happy days for us and now the first day of every month i remember what ive lost as well as gained. I had 29 and a half years with the best sister in universe and ill never forget how lucky that makes me.
we got aarons 16th birthday coming and darling chelsie has been robbed the kids have bee making choices they dont want to make between family and they need us all
i hope you read this steve cause its your son n daugter
suzy is going behind your back shes shit stirring and asking ME for help getting aarons stuff out like his tv
its caused probs and im not happy if you want to help you should tell her to stop and please get your bird to back the fuck off cause i wont be to blame for any of it i want aaron to be ok with is dad and i am always going to be here as his aunt as well as him having laura he should do fine with us 3 i dont hate you i love aaron but suzy you aint making it no better being snidy so sort it out.